Below the premise of double firewood family, the offer person of the economy in the home no longer father of be confined to, as parental part likelihood under the case of crossing-over, the structure of domestic member also follows change, new concern, let us use the change that domestic concern needs in light of new thinking.

In traditional idea, father is the giant in memory of a medium pillar, child, before long, what father follows the child is interactive become much, contemporary novice father begins to think those who participate in the child to grow, partake together with mammy Yo responsibility, how does ～ promote each other parentage then, become from understanding and study " father " begin.

After becoming father, just know how to become father...

A lot of document follow report, yo the focus is put on mammy body, what side can the effect that father produces to the child separate after all? In development process of the child, what part should father act after all? These are be worth soul-searching question as father. Although a lot of father had known his responsibility slowly attributive, also meet move gives a lot of time to get along with the child, but how to become so called " new good man " , it is the target that contemporary father tries hard ceaselessly.

New role of father

Traditional for generations arrives all the time 5, the father of 6 grader this generation, want to provide the assistance of domestic materially only mostly, close child on the body that education and domestic affective offer much to fall in the mother. Show as a result of traditional father most authoritative, resolute, it is chill figure even, although young now novice father has realized what father and son interacts is important, but suffer be confined to the mode that they get along with father as a child, let novice father cannot find the method that can convey father of him have one's bosom filled with love at a draught.

Even on the part division of labor of some families, mammy will be automatic regard father as the comminatory object when certainly, most often be heard even if, "Your or else is good, father comes back to meet those who punish you! " come down for a long time, the child produces scared, afraid psychology to father, dare be close to father not quite, the person that father fixed position is him punishment, cannot form between father and son too too close relationship.

Loving mother of traditional Yan Fu and " male advocate outside, female advocate inside " the idea has been broken, impose the condition that be particular about of both sides of husband and wife divides the work now under, the father's should active breeding that goes participating in cheeper, is not blindly adopy old some teachs way. How the children of breeding new generation, the fixed position of father part should enter the phase that thinks afresh.

Participate in education kissing duty actively, it is the first pace that contemporary father is badly in need of changing him think of a way, before father is the person that the economy in the home is offerred, below the education of authoritative type, the child should observe father's mood, cautious ground and father generation are interactive.
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