Every semester beginning, can take an exam once.
After the exam, student most afraid thing is to attend a meeting the parent.
Ask groups big, company the school opens staff meeting or perhaps teach a worker the conference, have when be afraid of? Won't arrive afraid degree. So, student why so fear does the school attend a meeting the parent?
Student B: My result is very right also, but often see my father, always fear, come home every time example I.
Student C: ...
The student needs had calm power
1, the psychological quality that fosters oneself, regard all difficulty and cross as oneself growing capital
2, the aspirations that grows bold him allegation homeward in difficulty, go letting the parent understand his with definite idea, let the parent do not work blindly according to his idea.
3, if unalterable others, that drills oneself stronger (bear force, castiron not the pliable but strong of forgive is strong, must let oneself learn achievement to go up) .
It is very difficult to should accomplish these, I feel pitiful for these children, but grow for yours at the same time feel have hope.
The distress of uptodate generation and helpless
If the parent just pays close attention to the child's achievement, have a kind of good idea, whether let the child improve result happily, is not to use scold boxing foot addition to enforce the child improves study result, what sense to have in that way? Alarming it is the child only good achievement satisfied her vanity and face to stop.
Faint loud cry, of parents repair for
Day force is powerful at person situation. Sometimes the thing that the person can do him not to wish to do actively, it is to comply with this times, comply with this big education environment. See the version of psychology of a few societies recently: The person's psychology is very peculiar, they can go automatically the issue that oneself ever did not consider to do.
So, since general trend of events is such, we also need not redeem the child's happiness with all one's strength, should be a kind of harden oneself, let the child grow in this kind of environment, go experiencing the life, after having an experience, go trying to adjust in the their meeting life in the future, go creating the life of themselves thereby.
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