Expert of 11 international children was done technically for young mother the most practical, the most scientific Yo experience summary. Want you to write down only prison insist to be done according to these experience, your child can grow happily not only, they still can thank a this when you offer him most healthy heaven sincerely.

1, let eaglet open wing slowly -- Han Weijing (doctor, controller of project of domestic behavior research)

Present child matures too quickly, this is not a favour. Want to make child assistant plump rise, should give them in order to pour pyramid -- namely the care of V form, when he is very small, the freedom that should limit him and he becomes the power of the view oneself. Mature gradually when them, when showing the action that sufficient capacity is him to be in charge of, another lets him move toward independence step by step.

This are to remind young father and mother not to let go to the child too early, otherwise they can feel by indulgent, the habit makes a few needless mistakes. After entering the school, be in for lack of necessary eye when must needing parents to help, they also can feel unaccustomed, as a result is depressed, can arise to be gone against strongly even turn over psychology, and the difficulty that this can increase parents and child to communicate undoubtedly.

2, do not quarrel on dining table -- ELLYNSATTER (American children and adult are undesirable food is used to an expert)

The food that parent place chooses, carry the child that feed to be able to be not accepted certainly. Teach you to use revulsive method: Had chosen lovely food, the child that takes to follow you next has an edge to talk by the side of happy ground. Must let atmosphere keep relaxed and lively, do not want those who censure him to have a meal habit. Such children can like gradually to get on a lot of differring phyletic dietary. Ten million remembers: Dining is the big inning with child coexist, want to enjoy it well, do not instigate on dining table war.

3, after coming off work, be together with the child more as far as possible -- Li Hanjun (children protects doctor of a Confucian school of idealist philosophy of the Song and Ming Dynasties)

The means of the gift that the parental be used to with busy job buys on one pile idiomatically will express the regret to the child, but actually the child does not need this most. Why to drop a telephone call, shut TV, be loosened together? Make game, tell tell the story that produces by day and joke, ask the school the thing of games more, did not forget to tell the child, be together with him is your happiest hour.

Had enough time communication, although your job is met now and then interrupt your communication, the child also can make allowances for you.

4, do not force the child into blind angle -- SEAN COVEY (the United States, have " how to rear the child with action strong capability " one book)

Stick label to the child, take nickname or taking he and others is very dangerous quite, the direction that this can make he accepts criticism forward only further. You should regard every child as what progressing ceaselessly is individual. Actually their like growing to resemble bamboo; After the grow in the garden falls, 4 years the ground holds to your work laboriously to water him, he grew a few centimeters only; Arrive the 5th year, casual between he however at a draught change is near 1 meter taller! The adult rate of every child also is different. But must patient, should give them time.
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