The child went up tall 3, many parents also follow insecurity to rise, do not know how to be communicated with the child, also become even daily communication difficult even. Concerned psychology expert reminds, the parent is put relaxed, the child's pressure just can be reduced.

Gao Sansheng Xiaowang often quarrels with the mother recently, occasionally for a bit bagatelle, also meet suffer from excessive internal heat is noisy rise. Ms. Zhang says his mother, she does not know how to should communicate with the son now, the word said to weigh be no good, use gently without giving thought to again. Want to ask the child's study the circumstance occasionally, the child always feels disgusted again, mother and daughter can erupt again big fight. "Want to see the child's look everyday now, see him the mood is bad, the family dare not offend him. " mother Ms. Zhang feels very grievance. But small Wang Ye feels in the heart uncomfortable, he says: "Tall 3 begin, the family member is nervous, parents and I talk to become block cloak attack by surprise, ask what returns talk in a roundabout way, let me feel pressure is greater. Let me feel pressure is greater..

Reporter from Beijing a few understanding in Gao Sansheng arrive, like Home Xiaowang such circumstance is absent a few. The parent is beyond the mark and nervous, let the child feel pressure is greater, make the communication of the parent and child is affected. Some parents love to chatter, all matters, show loving care for to the utmost; When some parents and child are communicated, beyond the mark cautious; Still some parents resign even in the home, take care of child life technically. These make the child more nervous in virtually, positive effect is less than since the study to the child.

Beijing some psychology seeks advice from Zhao Liang of Guo of net psychology expert to think, the child arrived tall 3, the parent should build harmonious domestic atmosphere, should answer child the university entrance exam already thing, also cannot beyond the mark insecurity. The parent should give the child measurable care, lest cause the child,feel disgusted. To the child with strong consciousness, it is OK that the parent grows when good logistics department. Some child consciousness are not quite strong, the parent can supervise and urge appropriately. Tall 3 parents should be accomplished ask less to be done more, place oneself position, help child establishs confidence, but do not throw total energy to child the university entrance exam in this one thing, want to do a few oneself businesses appropriately.