Earth up a root to be in " life reads by · talking " in say: "The person's nature is just as feral flowers and plants, curious study is just like clip transplant. " " all sorts of blemish on spirit, can be improved through seeking knowledge -- the blemish on body of no less than, like can be improved through proper motion. Like can be improved through proper motion..

Control capacity oneself not strong, it is the common characteristic of general child, and a lot of problems among study should rely on to increase to accuse ability to solve oneself: The path that this is parents " behead 6 will " the basic basis of the serious content that labels institutional study.

Path place of parents says " behead 6 will " , should let the child be the same as what lazy, loose, float, thick, deadlocked, cowardly learns 6 times this self-consciously namely " archenemy " make a fight, assure battle and get the better of.

Lazy, on study expression is not diligent, the work that always insults painfully is not willing to do. Have two kinds of cases commonly: One kind is to be only on study lazy, play when rising however strength is very full, enthusiasm pretty is tall; Another kind is lazy idle does what, comprehensive ground is afraid that suffering is afraid of tired graph at leisure. Lazy it is a kind of psychosis, also be a kind of manner, the place of a logion of person of Persia of no less than says: "Lazy be rise by feeble soul. " since such, and lazy make a fight have two kinds of tweak, it is detection it, blow upon it, 2 be with it to work. And lazy to work, that wants namely diligent, diligent be effort wanting fee, be no good without impulsion, return so from " save " " feeble soul " proceed with, see a problem from the height of struggle for existence. Should let the child know " study cannot be relaxed game, cannot be dinkum and often ceaseless recreation, study is labor above all. " (Suhuomulinsiji " give whole soul the child " ) " and it is labor forever, it is the work that filled a mind. " (Wushensiji " children world " ) and " not laborer must not be fed " , it is the theorem with changeless through the ages. Tell the child even at the same time, studying this kind of work is have in suffering happy, if Confucius place says: "Learn and when of be used to, extremely! " cheek of Cheng of person of day of the Song Dynasty ever said or state with certainty: "Learn as to happy, be become. " learn to the child, need motive power not only, the motivation outside also needing, of old people remind and supervise and urge, be necessary below most circumstance, this kind reminds and supervise and urge especially the nurturance that still conduces to good convention. Lazy it is to mix " irritated " those who contact together, average person does the thing that he has fun at, not only not lazy, past contact can forget food and sleep. So, what expression learns to be in only is lazy, learn probably to concern with be disgusted with. The reason that be disgusted with learns is many sided, but in front 5 when say " close " not was main reason very too, if this 5 " close " had passed, make study becomes normal, nature very interesting even thing, the case that be disgusted with learns also happened unlikely.
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